How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:01
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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is after school detention like in your school?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Do you have any problem dating a younger man?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
Does not procrastinate.
What should I do to get over a relationship?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What I need from you?
Making more friends is a goal.
How do I study with focus and concentration and avoid distractions and procrastination?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Can the effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) be reversed?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How do you write a letter to your uncle who sent you money for your birthday outfit?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Procrastinates a lot.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.